Lillith Avir

Lillith Avir

D/s... mostly

No True Way



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I had plans… be honest, it feels like pretty much everything about the year 2020 could start with the words "I had plans". I had plans for...
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Let’s talk about…
A lively discussion is usually helpful, because the hottest fire makes the hardest steel.Tom Clancy I have said it before and I will say it...
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Talk about me
When I wrote about exhibitionism, I mentioned how much I enjoyed not only being looked at, but also hear others comments on what I'm doing....
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About Lillith

I am a woman, in my 30s, living in Germany. I’ve started exploring my submissive side years ago and this blog followed.

At some point the exchange on Twitter was not enough and I needed a place to write down my thoughts, ideas, fantasies. So here I am. With my ramblings, stories and experiences.

After a very long search and many ups and downs, I found a friend who became more.

I am owned by the most wonderful man, who leads me, makes me think, and makes me a better person. Michael is my love, my Sir, my Daddy and so much more.


But, Why?
A submissive shouldn’t question a Dominant’s orders.It’s not a submissive’s position to...
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Losing Control
"I want you to think of one thing for Mean Day my...
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A Day of Servitude
We had talked about a Day of Service before. A day, when...
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Sir yes Sir
Photo by Marlene Leppänen on When we spent our days together...
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Weights and Running
I had a friend who would go for a run each morning....
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Of Doms and Subs
Dominants tend to be the “Alpha Male”, and that is why “Dom”...
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The Power of Sex
Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about...
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Before we met the first time in December, we talked about aftercare....
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