Lillith Avir

Lillith Avir

Lillith Avir

D/s... mostly

Never Have I Ever – November



Why blog?

I´ve always been writing. It helped me sort the thoughts and emotions, which sometimes were just too much.
I also always enjoyed talking to my friends about my experiences and exchange stories.

So this blog is exactly that.
My way to sort out my thoughts on D/s, my emotions about D/s and my way to share it with my friends, around the world.

Latest Posts

Latest Posts

Conflict of Submission

Photo by cottonbro on Post 4 on 30 Days of d/s: How do you handle conflict now? How do you imagine handling it in...
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Crime and Punishment

Photo by Isabela Catão on As a submissive, are you willing to allow a Dominant to discipline or punish you in your relationship? As...
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Let’s talk about Negotiation

Negotiation is a Fancy Word for TalkingNegotiations aren’t a one time thing either. You’ll come back to this over and over again in your relationship....
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Conflict of Submission

Photo by cottonbro on Post 4 on 30 Days of d/s:...
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What’s (not) in a Sub

Does a submissive have certain behaviours? Do submissives do specific tasks? When...
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Don’t Give In

Stubbornness is a bad character trait for a submissive. If I follow...
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The Marshmallow Incident

As I mentioned it the post before, during our trial week for...
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Eat an Egg

It all started with me saying "no". He was telling me what...
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Young, Old, Silly

Young subs, older doms I think that's me. Now, I wouldn't go...
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I'm not sure I'm smarter than I look. But for sure I'm...
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On The Edge

Photo by stein egil liland on I'm pretty sure I have...
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