There was a lot of talk about D/s and Doms and relationships going on in the past few days on Twitter and on several blogs.
I’ve been talking to people, listening to their opinions. Why they think this and that. And why they believe something or don’t believe it. How they look at things. What their ideas are.

Most of the time I would nod and think to myself: ‘Yeah, that is true for you!’ (The rest were mostly stupid comments 😉 )

And suddenly it became clear to me.
Yes, that is their opinion and they will find, or maybe already found, someone who shares it.
But it does not have to be true for me. I have to figure out what I want and stop care about what people think is right and wrong.
If you think only your type of relationship works then you are right. That is the only type of relationship that works, for YOU.
If you think that something doesn’t work then it doesn’t.

But this is just your side of view. I agree that it is right for you. But it’s not the only way to be in a D/s relationship.
Of all the opinions I read, there was not one of which I thought that it somehow gets close to what I want.

I know what I want. I knew it before and throughout experience I learned that I was right. And I truly believe that what I want can actually work.

You don’t agree that it is right? Then don’t agree.
You don’t agree that this is the way to lead a D/s relationship? Then don’t agree.

The beauty of life is that there is not ONE right way, how you live your life and what you do with it. There are so many wonderful ways.

One comment

  1. Indication of UberBDSM #345-D: Make sure that you browbeat others to agree with your taste in play-style, toys, true dominance, etc. This way you are known as the omnipotent and disdainful dark lord.

    I’m glad you figured this out. At the end of the day, your opinion is all that matters. Pursue whats true to you.

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