I do not enjoy anal sex.
There I said it.
Not only that I don’t enjoy it. I hate it. It is uncomfortable. It is painful. It’s more pain than I am willing to take.
Yes, I had anal sex before and I never enjoyed it. Most of the time I hated it and the other few times it just felt odd, but not in a good way.
I am not willing to try it again, because the person I am with likes it so much.
Of course I am curious when I see other girls talk about how much they love it. And it might be true for them.
Maybe I just need some training. But I can imagine that it would take a lot of time.
And maybe I am simply not an anal-sex kind of person.
Having anal as a hard limit doesn’t make me a bad sub or even a bad lover. (But a man who wants it anyway, although I don’t like it, is a bad Dom and/or a bad lover.)
I’m not talking about anyone specific. It’s just a random thought.
I don’t like anal. And I am okay with that.