There’s something I don’t understand. (There’s more than one thing, but let’s talk about one at a time.)
Maybe it’s me. Maybe it’s something I do or say or something I don’t do or say. Maybe it’s my picture or my description or my bio.
That said, I would like an explanation for the following experience.
I talk to men online. On FetLife, Twitter, CollarMe. We talk. Just talk. About things like:
– Where are you from?
– My blog
And so on
And at some point these men start to give me instructions, tasks.
Telling me that they are training me to be their slave. Giving me orders what to wear. Setting a timeline in which I have to wash my car. (Just to name a few examples.)
Not in a harsh way. In a way which my Owner, my Master, my Dom would say it. Mostly.
Neither did one of the men ask me to be their slave/sub/whatever nor did I ask for it.
When I tell them that I believe they are out of line and we should get to know each other, they usually agree. But a bit later I find them again giving instructions.
Don’t get me wrong. I love tasks. But not random tasks, from random men.
Is the fact that we talk via DM or a messenger kind of a sign that I agree to something?
Or that I tell them personal and private things?
I really would like to know, in order to avoid it.
Because the moment they man I talk to starts giving me instructions, something happens to me, my interest stops and the chance that anything ever happens between us becomes tiny.
I am the kind of girl who wants to know who she’s dealing with and wants to be known by her Dom.
How can you give someone a task and not know their limits and limitations?
Call me old-fashioned, but that’s the way I am. And if a man can’t respect that, he shouldn’t be surprised when I stop being interested in him.