The first thing that come to my mind when I read the prompt was to write about safewords. But I wasn´t quite sure and hoped for some more inspiration. And there it was.
During a talk with Nima earlier today, he suggested that the next time we meet we should talk about D/s and how it affects the non-play time. Also, whether we want it to have any effect on it. During this conversation he also pointed out that we should talk about having a safeword.
No problem, I thought to myself. I already have a safeword. But the next moment I remembered that all is different with Nima. Mostly, because we speak German. All my Doms in the past were English-speaking. So now I am discovering D/s in a different language.
It is exciting, but kind of strange. For almost 10 years the language I associated with my desires was English. I learned the words and expressions. It felt right, just as any other language didn´t feel right.
Now I feel a bit like a newbie. Not having the right words to express my feeling, wants and desires. On the other hand I am excited about exploring it with him together. (Also, his English is pretty good, in case I really miss a word…)
So, for my near future: No means Nein
For obvious reasons that will not be my safeword. I´m thinking something more like: “supercalifragilisticexpialidocious”