My colleague and me

My colleague and me

Although I don’t work as one now, I usually work as a secretary. And I have always had a fantasy of being not “just” the secretary.
Being a sub to my boss. Being punished for doing mistakes and rewarded for doing something very good. And only my boss and I would know.
I love that idea.
But I never had a boss to whom I was attracted. In any way. I liked most of them. With some I even was friends outside of work. Now that I think about it, one was even my ex-boyfriend. But at the time I worked there, I was not interested in any of them.
So that fantasy never worked out.

But looking back, I always had at least one colleague to whom I was attracted. Nothing ever happened. Mostly because I have never acted on it.

The older I get, the smarter this seems to me.
Please note that I am only speaking for myself and am not telling others what is right and wrong.

I would never have a thing with my co-worker or even boss. As exciting as it might be for the moment, those things end and can create an unbearable situation.
Of course things might end in a good way. But how often does it happen. Usually at least one is hurt and then you don’t want to see the other person every day.

So I wouldn’t have an affair or relationship with someone I work with or for.
But I will go on and enjoy the fantasy of it. Because my fantasies never end bad

Come and see who *is* having an affair with their coworker:



  1. Diese Fantasie wird mich wahrscheinliich auch solange begleiten, solange ich arbeite. Tatsächlich hatte ich auch noch nie etwas mit einer Kollegin oder Mitarbeiterin. Und es ist gefährlich. Und es kann natürlich auf eine Weise enden, die jemandem weh tut. Aber niemals “sie” im Kopierraum, zwischen zwei Terminen vögeln? Niemals mir von “ihr” unter meinem Schreibtisch einen blasen lassen? “Sie” niemals auf dem Besprechungstisch oder dem Schreibtisch schnell von hinten ficken? Niemals mit meine Fingern in “Ihrer” Fotze rumspielen, während draussen die Arbeit weitergeht? “Sie” niemals auf meinem Schreibtisch ausschlecken? Niemals von “Ihr” by the way ihre rasierte feuchte Fotze gezeigt bekommen während ich “ihr” auf der Arbeit gegenübersitze? (Die Liste lässt sich noch ziemlich lange fortsetzen, wenn dann noch “Ihr” den Hintern versohlen, “ihr” Aufgaben stellen, “Sie” bestrafen usw. dazukäme).

    Nein, ich kann das nicht nur als Fantasie abtun, ich wäre bei der richtigen Frau dazu bereit. Und schlimmer noch: Ein guter Freund von mir hat das (nicht alles natürlich) einmal mit einer Frau erlebt, die dann nach 2 Jahren aus beruflichen Gründen in eine andere Stadt gegangen ist. Und es ist “gut” ausgegangen – jedenfalls bis jetzt.

  2. I have had affairs with two colleagues. With one I was only flirting around a lot and then we had sex once. After that, it was over. With another I had a full blown affair and when he wanted to leave his wife, I stopped it. Looking back I know that what has happened was not right, but I guess I was too young to realize it at the time.

    Rebel xox

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