Although I don’t work as one now, I usually work as a secretary. And I have always had a fantasy of being not “just” the secretary.
Being a sub to my boss. Being punished for doing mistakes and rewarded for doing something very good. And only my boss and I would know.
I love that idea.
But I never had a boss to whom I was attracted. In any way. I liked most of them. With some I even was friends outside of work. Now that I think about it, one was even my ex-boyfriend. But at the time I worked there, I was not interested in any of them.
So that fantasy never worked out.
But looking back, I always had at least one colleague to whom I was attracted. Nothing ever happened. Mostly because I have never acted on it.
The older I get, the smarter this seems to me.
Please note that I am only speaking for myself and am not telling others what is right and wrong.
I would never have a thing with my co-worker or even boss. As exciting as it might be for the moment, those things end and can create an unbearable situation.
Of course things might end in a good way. But how often does it happen. Usually at least one is hurt and then you don’t want to see the other person every day.
So I wouldn’t have an affair or relationship with someone I work with or for.
But I will go on and enjoy the fantasy of it. Because my fantasies never end bad
Come and see who *is* having an affair with their coworker: