Of Good Girls and Sirs
What Titles and Labels Do You Prefer? I prefer no labels. Never have really. And to be honest, I still am looking for the one which describes me best as a submissive. Maybe submissive is …
What’s (not) in a Sub
Does a submissive have certain behaviours? Do submissives do specific tasks? When you think of a submissive and submission, what thoughts come to mind? After posting my first post for 30 Days of d/s, I …
The Dominant Partner
What does dominance in a relationship mean to you? What traits will a Dominant have? How should a Dominant behave? I identify as a submissive. But I still have opinions on how a dominant should …
Don’t Give In
Stubbornness is a bad character trait for a submissive. If I follow that logic, I can tell you that I’m a horrible submissive. I’m stubborn. I’ve always been. My parents keep telling me stories about …
NTW #30
Mandatory aftercare – is that really a thing? Should it be? Read what others think on the previous NTW prompt. As I wrote a post about him telling me to eat, I received a comment: …
If I am not for myself, who is for me?
Aftercare is mandatory for subs. Where do I start?It was a long journey for me to learn about the concept of aftercare and dropping. I believe those two often go hand in hand. When I …
Sex is Love
Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex. Hunter S Thompson I have been thinking about this quote for a few days now and couldn’t come up with something to write …
Light Up
Look at how a single candle can both defy and define the darkness. Anne Frank Just as before, I have feelings when using a qoute by Anne Frank on my sex blog. But, not all …
NTW #29
Are subs more loyal lovers than anyone else? Find out in the previous #NoTrueWay prompt. It’s time for a new one, inspired by Sir Dax: Aftercare is mandatory for subs. Does every sub need aftercare? …
Burning Hearts
After writing a post every day, I often find it hard to get back into regular writing. I often feel exhausted after the commitment of 30/31 days and need a break. Sometimes it seems that …