Oh the joy of looking for new prompts for NoTrueWay.
I always try to set some time aside, as I browse the internet or Twitter. And I’m rarely disappointed.
Sadly this means that after a while I have to stop searching and take a break. This break can be up to several days, because I get very angry, upset, worked up. And hating men, idiots and many humans in general becomes easier.
That was true with this prompt as well.
Put her in her place,
slap her hard & often.
All women are whores.
Where to begin?
I should mention that this was not a BDSM related account.
While I like to be put in my place and slapped (although it has been a hard limit for a while), it only works for me with the right person.
Put her in her place,
How do I love it, when people are telling me to shut up, because I don’t know what I’m talking about. That was sarcasm, obviously.
There other day I was invited to dinner at a friend’s house. Her husband was there and other people as well. We were talking and discussing all kinds of things. With my volunteer work I run different programs and am in charge of a variety of things within my community. One of them is seen as a male dominated field. I had run into challenges with the position I hold in the past and every time it made stronger.
So this area came up as well. And at some point I made a remark or comment and my friend’s husband said: “Oh Lilly, be quiet. What do you know about that?!”
My mind went WTF?! and I simply looked at him in disbelief. I was caught off guard by him putting me in my place. Or a place he believed I belonged. I had no words and all I could do was to give him an angry look. It didn’t fit with all the other things he said before. I guess that was, why I was caught off guard. This upset me and I mentioned it to someone who was there with me the next day. I was then informed that my friend’s husband was being sarcastic. That made much more sense, but I believe he should not try sarcasm again. He is not good at it.
But it got me thinking. I do react more to someone putting me in “my” place than to many other things. Especially when it’s men. I have even fought Michael on occasion, while I actually want that from him.
Being put in my place, being told I don’t know something because I’m a woman enrages me. I go into fighting and angry mode within seconds. Probably because I have experienced it so often, and too many times I didn’t speak up.
slap her hard & often.
I mean, no, just no. What the actual fuck? Why would anyone think that is a way to treat anyone? Again, this was not a BDSM related account and even then I would strongly disagree.
This is abuse!
All women are whores.
I’m pretty sure the person who wrote that is of that opinion, because all woman would not have sex with him. I’ve seen it before and I always wonder about the logic. I won’t sleep with you, so I am called a slut or a whore.
And how is that connected to the slapping? Is it ok to slap sex workers?
Is it ok to slap women who enjoy sex and have had different partners (something which society would label as a slut)?
What about women, who hadn’t have sex yet (I’m very reluctant to use the word “virgin”)?
4 words and I have so many questions.
What also fascinates me is that the men who say things like “all women are whores” get really worked up and claim “not all men”. Love the double standard.
Societal misogyny is as engrained as racism.
I live with an ER doctor. She has been fighting this all her life and even worse even though her badge clearly stated MD she is always assumed to be a nurse even by female identifying patients.
Something to be fought and corrected.
Non-negotiated impact play unasked for is abuse. No questions asked. Battery.