My Local Community
I didn’t want to write about this topic. I didn’t think I had anything to share.But then I had an idea. Have you done it in the past? What was your experience? Are you nervous …
Real Life vs. d/s
Does it surprise you that you might not maintain the same level of D/s during the stressful times? Do you think you know how you’ll handle your relationship when it does? What ideas can you …
From a Distance
Today’s 30 days of d/s is perfect for me: Maintaining D/s When You’re Apart Long distance relationships, trips without your partner, simply not living together – it all adds up to one thing: being D/s …
According to the Rules
Oh, today’s 30 days of d/s topic I like a lot! Some rules determine behavior in public, others are about private behavior. Some rules may be more common but there’s no right or wrong here. …
Pleasurable Pain
I have to enjoy, I’m really enjoying having a daily topic to think and write about. So here comes the next 30 days of d/s:How Do You Feel About Pain? As a submissive, would you …
Add some Vanilla
Today’s topic for 30 days of d/s is: Introducing d/s to your vanilla relationshipWith the following introduction: Everyone is at a different point in life. Some people are married and happily kinky. Others are happily …
Silence gives Consent
Today’s 30 Days of d/s has no question. But I will use the introduction to the topic to help my thoughts on it: Most of us think of consent as a “Yes” or a “No” …
Say the Word
Another day and time for another post for 30 Days of d/s: So, the question today is, what’s your safeword? If you don’t want to have one, why not? I have written plenty about safewords. …
The Sky’s the Limit
I was waiting for this topic on 30 Days of d/s: Do you know what your hard limits are? Are there a few things you’d like to try but you’re a little nervous? They’re such …
Handling Emotions
Negative emotions are natural and normal. But once you’re in a D/s relationship, there’s an expectation of how you’ll behave with your partner. Both of you, regardless of how you identify, should be polite and …