Switching Back and Forth
A switch is not a real dom/sub Such a short sentence, and so much wrong with it… I could probably write a series of posts on the idea of “real” or “true” doms and subs. …
Control me – don’t you dare
There are things I crave when it comes to d/s. Mostly it’s control. I want to be controlled. I enjoy asking for permission for things. That is why something like orgasm control never bothered me …
Not a Sex Slave – Yet a Good Girl
A good girl is always available Isn’t that every man’s dream? We all know what is implied, right? It’s all about sex. The idea that your partner or whatever you want to call that person …
Outlet of Submission
Submission appeals to responsible, hard working and independent women, because it takes them to a world free from those pressures. My first thought: Bullshit! But I couldn’t really point out what it was that annoyed …
Read a Book
I remember seeing the term “sapiosexuality” about 2 or 3 years ago for the first time. There was an article and I read it with fascination. I love it when things, which have been on …
Don’t Speak…
I know that I’m the one to pick the prompts. But this one is touching a special place. I kept reading it back and every time it irritated me as much as the time before. …
All is fair in love and war…
I had an extremely hard day at work yesterday. It was exhausting and I was home very late. I worked way past the time I usually do and was working on stuff that isn’t really …
Please what now?
Does a Dom need to use the word please? I think I missed the day in sub school when they taught the lesson on doms and the usage of the word please. However I have …
Hurt Me and Say No
I always have trouble with labels. I never saw myself as much of a masochist and after my encounter with “the sadist” I very clearly said that I’m anything but. On the other hand, I …
Orgasm Control
Orgasm control is a no-brainer for me. It is part of d/s, for me. It has always been connected to d/s, every since the first dominant I submitted to. There were variations. Asking for permission …