Just Checking
Using a check list at the beginning of a potential d/s relationship is the best way to see whether it will work There’s a romanticised idea that one day you’ll meet another person (or several …
The Scary Thought of 24/7
I knew 24/7 was going to happen for 30 days of d/s, and here it is… Not every d/s relationship is meant to be a 24/7 relationship. Some people don’t want that level of responsibility …
It’s Not The End Of The World
Today’s 30 days of d/s deals with break-ups. We sincerely hope that whatever good, healthy D/s relationship you find yourself in never ends or doesn’t end on bad terms. But the reality is that, for …
Ripple Effect
Oh how I dread today’s topic of 30 days of d/s. Not because writing about it is hard, but because I hate when it happens.The drop…. What goes up must come down. Which means sub …
Going to Space
Completing my 30 Days of d/s is taking me longer than 30 days. But I do my best to not pressure myself, and write whenever I can, have the time, and the idea of what …
I want it all and I want it now
Today’s 30 days of d/s asks a simple question: Have you heard of subfrenzy? My answer was: No! Never heard of it. No idea what it is. I also had never heard of the word …
When You See Me…
I have been so occupied with work and 30 Days of d/s that I almost forgot to write a post for my own prompt. But I remembered… A dominant person recognises a submissive person……not with …
The Naked Truth
In some D/s relationships, there is an agreement that the submissive will always be sexually available to their dominant. While this can be a kinky, sexy aspect of a relationship, it always requires a great …
Cum For Me
Orgasm control encompasses a lot of different play. Begging for permission, denial, edging, forced orgasms, and even coming on demand – there’s a lot there. Some people (like us) say, “We want it all!” And …
Who needs sex when you have d/s?
Have you ever considered d/s without a sexual component? Would you be interested in something like it? How important is sex to your current or future d/s relationship? For a long time, d/s was connected …