Of Doms and Subs
Dominants tend to be the “Alpha Male”, and that is why “Dom” is always spelled with a capital, while “sub” is always lowercase. As we were sitting in the kitchen on our Friday together, I …
The Power of Sex
Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. Oscar Wilde Isn’t that true?! There is no discussion about sex being about power. But I have been thinking a lot about …
Aftercare
Before we met the first time in December, we talked about aftercare. What I need, when I need it. I know that I needed aftercare in the past, but to say in which situations and …
I belong to…
Who do you belong to? That is a question Michael started asking me a while back. It’s a series of question, which always start with: Who do you belong to? Whenever he asks me that, …
Where the Dark Fanatsies Live
Who are you? Are you in touch with all of your darkest fantasies? Have you created a life for yourself where you can experience them? I have. I am fucking crazy. But I am free. …
Safe is the Word
I have written about safewords several times. Some post are only touching that subject, others talk about my thoughts at that time. I went back and read them. And after that I can say, with …
Invisible Collar
Whether worn or not a collar is never off. I have written on the topic of collars on a few occasions. The last one I wrote few months ago and was talking about me missing …
The Orgasmic Problem
We had some tearful conversations, moments, chats in the past few months. Well, actually only I had the tearful moments. He was there, comforting me, feeling sorry that I was crying, trying to understand what …
Toying with the Shovel
If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging. Will Rogers Isn’t that great advise? Now, one day I will learn to follow it. Or not – which sounds …
Touch Me
I think, I’ve written about this before. I am not a big fan of others touching me. I don’t really hug my friends or anything like that. To be honest, one thing I actually liked …