Conflict of Submission
Post 4 on 30 Days of d/s: How do you handle conflict now? How do you imagine handling it in D/s? What do you think you’ll need to do differently in a D/s relationship? As …
Crime and Punishment
As a submissive, are you willing to allow a Dominant to discipline or punish you in your relationship? As a Dominant, are you willing to require discipline or give out punishment? What kinds of punishments …
Let’s talk about Negotiation
Negotiation is a Fancy Word for Talking Negotiations aren’t a one time thing either. You’ll come back to this over and over again in your relationship. Will you have a contract? Do you need a …
Of Good Girls and Sirs
What Titles and Labels Do You Prefer? I prefer no labels. Never have really. And to be honest, I still am looking for the one which describes me best as a submissive. Maybe submissive is …
What’s (not) in a Sub
Does a submissive have certain behaviours? Do submissives do specific tasks? When you think of a submissive and submission, what thoughts come to mind? After posting my first post for 30 Days of d/s, I …
The Dominant Partner
What does dominance in a relationship mean to you? What traits will a Dominant have? How should a Dominant behave? I identify as a submissive. But I still have opinions on how a dominant should …
Don’t Give In
Stubbornness is a bad character trait for a submissive. If I follow that logic, I can tell you that I’m a horrible submissive. I’m stubborn. I’ve always been. My parents keep telling me stories about …
If I am not for myself, who is for me?
Aftercare is mandatory for subs. Where do I start?It was a long journey for me to learn about the concept of aftercare and dropping. I believe those two often go hand in hand. When I …
The Marshmallow Incident
As I mentioned it the post before, during our trial week for Meal Control there was an incident with a marshmallow. I’m not big on sweets. I prefer crisps, for example. But there are a …
Eat an Egg
It all started with me saying “no”. He was telling me what to do, and well, here we are. And in retrospect I can say, I should’ve seen it coming. Funny, how sometimes I can’t …