Break – Erase – Rewrite
Sometimes Michael says something about breaking me down. It usually is in during a certain moment in our more kinky moments. But whenever he says it, it stays with me. I have heard men say …
Mommy likes Bruises
If you’re a parent, today is a day to think about how you make your D/s work while raising kids. And if you’re not a parent yet, imagine how you might handle things if you …
Rituals and Tasks
I had been doing so well with the 30 Days of d/s. But then again, it was easy. I started when I was away on holiday with Michael. There was only a little bit of …
The Busy Submissive
That picture represents my brain and life in the past month, a bit more than that, pretty well.I have been busy. Like really, really busy. Conferences, seminars, family, more work, more volunteer work, more of …
Possession of Collar
It has been a busy time for me. I didn’t get to write anything. Not for my blog, not for other memes and prompts and not for NTW.I did have a lot of thoughts on …
Just Checking
Using a check list at the beginning of a potential d/s relationship is the best way to see whether it will work There’s a romanticised idea that one day you’ll meet another person (or several …
The Scary Thought of 24/7
I knew 24/7 was going to happen for 30 days of d/s, and here it is… Not every d/s relationship is meant to be a 24/7 relationship. Some people don’t want that level of responsibility …
It’s Not The End Of The World
Today’s 30 days of d/s deals with break-ups. We sincerely hope that whatever good, healthy D/s relationship you find yourself in never ends or doesn’t end on bad terms. But the reality is that, for …
Ripple Effect
Oh how I dread today’s topic of 30 days of d/s. Not because writing about it is hard, but because I hate when it happens.The drop…. What goes up must come down. Which means sub …
Going to Space
Completing my 30 Days of d/s is taking me longer than 30 days. But I do my best to not pressure myself, and write whenever I can, have the time, and the idea of what …