According to the Rules
Oh, today’s 30 days of d/s topic I like a lot! Some rules determine behavior in public, others are about private behavior. Some rules may be more common but there’s no right or wrong here. …
Pleasurable Pain
I have to enjoy, I’m really enjoying having a daily topic to think and write about. So here comes the next 30 days of d/s:How Do You Feel About Pain? As a submissive, would you …
Add some Vanilla
Today’s topic for 30 days of d/s is: Introducing d/s to your vanilla relationshipWith the following introduction: Everyone is at a different point in life. Some people are married and happily kinky. Others are happily …
Silence gives Consent
Today’s 30 Days of d/s has no question. But I will use the introduction to the topic to help my thoughts on it: Most of us think of consent as a “Yes” or a “No” …
Say the Word
Another day and time for another post for 30 Days of d/s: So, the question today is, what’s your safeword? If you don’t want to have one, why not? I have written plenty about safewords. …
The Sky’s the Limit
I was waiting for this topic on 30 Days of d/s: Do you know what your hard limits are? Are there a few things you’d like to try but you’re a little nervous? They’re such …
Handling Emotions
Negative emotions are natural and normal. But once you’re in a D/s relationship, there’s an expectation of how you’ll behave with your partner. Both of you, regardless of how you identify, should be polite and …
Let’s talk about….
Today’s 30 Days of d/s is about communication. What is your communication style? What happens when you try to communicate your thoughts or needs? I don’t have a problem communication. I talk to people. I …
Conflict of Submission
Post 4 on 30 Days of d/s: How do you handle conflict now? How do you imagine handling it in D/s? What do you think you’ll need to do differently in a D/s relationship? As …
Crime and Punishment
As a submissive, are you willing to allow a Dominant to discipline or punish you in your relationship? As a Dominant, are you willing to require discipline or give out punishment? What kinds of punishments …