The Sky’s the Limit
I was waiting for this topic on 30 Days of d/s: Do you know what your hard limits are? Are there a few things you’d like to try but you’re a little nervous? They’re such …
Handling Emotions
Negative emotions are natural and normal. But once you’re in a D/s relationship, there’s an expectation of how you’ll behave with your partner. Both of you, regardless of how you identify, should be polite and …
Let’s talk about….
Today’s 30 Days of d/s is about communication. What is your communication style? What happens when you try to communicate your thoughts or needs? I don’t have a problem communication. I talk to people. I …
Conflict of Submission
Post 4 on 30 Days of d/s: How do you handle conflict now? How do you imagine handling it in D/s? What do you think you’ll need to do differently in a D/s relationship? As …
Crime and Punishment
As a submissive, are you willing to allow a Dominant to discipline or punish you in your relationship? As a Dominant, are you willing to require discipline or give out punishment? What kinds of punishments …
Let’s talk about Negotiation
Negotiation is a Fancy Word for Talking Negotiations aren’t a one time thing either. You’ll come back to this over and over again in your relationship. Will you have a contract? Do you need a …
Of Good Girls and Sirs
What Titles and Labels Do You Prefer? I prefer no labels. Never have really. And to be honest, I still am looking for the one which describes me best as a submissive. Maybe submissive is …
What’s (not) in a Sub
Does a submissive have certain behaviours? Do submissives do specific tasks? When you think of a submissive and submission, what thoughts come to mind? After posting my first post for 30 Days of d/s, I …
The Dominant Partner
What does dominance in a relationship mean to you? What traits will a Dominant have? How should a Dominant behave? I identify as a submissive. But I still have opinions on how a dominant should …
Don’t Give In
Stubbornness is a bad character trait for a submissive. If I follow that logic, I can tell you that I’m a horrible submissive. I’m stubborn. I’ve always been. My parents keep telling me stories about …