It’s Not The End Of The World
Today’s 30 days of d/s deals with break-ups. We sincerely hope that whatever good, healthy D/s relationship you find yourself in never ends or doesn’t end on bad terms. But the reality is that, for …
Ripple Effect
Oh how I dread today’s topic of 30 days of d/s. Not because writing about it is hard, but because I hate when it happens.The drop…. What goes up must come down. Which means sub …
Handling Emotions
Negative emotions are natural and normal. But once you’re in a D/s relationship, there’s an expectation of how you’ll behave with your partner. Both of you, regardless of how you identify, should be polite and …
Light Up
Look at how a single candle can both defy and define the darkness. Anne Frank Just as before, I have feelings when using a qoute by Anne Frank on my sex blog. But, not all …
The Marshmallow Incident
As I mentioned it the post before, during our trial week for Meal Control there was an incident with a marshmallow. I’m not big on sweets. I prefer crisps, for example. But there are a …
Being stubborn can be a good thing…
Being stubborn can be a bad thing. It just depends on how you use it. Willie Aames I am a little stubborn. Really just a tiny little bit. I mean, it depends on who you …
Hope Dies Last
I miss him. I miss being in his arms. I miss being spanked by him. I miss laughing at the nonsense he says, while he’s next to me. I miss having dinner with him. I …
Nothing You Can Say
Do you follow Michael on Twitter? If you’re not, you should. He is brilliant and funny and helpful and wonderful. Though he’s not tweeting much lately, but a big part of his tweets are about …
Patient Move
I have said it again and again, I’m not a patient person. It’s simply not who I am. It doesn’t effect my daily life, but can be annoying. To myself and others. If there’s nothing …
Control me – don’t you dare
There are things I crave when it comes to d/s. Mostly it’s control. I want to be controlled. I enjoy asking for permission for things. That is why something like orgasm control never bothered me …