I Give Up
This morning I made a decision. I give up. It’s simply easier this way and probably less frustrating. I know it won’t always feel as easy as it did in the moment when I made …
I Love You Too
Do you remember the first time you told someone you loved them? And want it? Of course I’m talking about a romantic partner, not a family member or a friend. I remember my first time. …
Missing
I didn’t have a lot to write about lately. I didn’t rweet much either. On the one hand, I was really busy. But I also didn’t think there was much to share. No ideas which …
Break – Erase – Rewrite
Sometimes Michael says something about breaking me down. It usually is in during a certain moment in our more kinky moments. But whenever he says it, it stays with me. I have heard men say …
It’s Not The End Of The World
Today’s 30 days of d/s deals with break-ups. We sincerely hope that whatever good, healthy D/s relationship you find yourself in never ends or doesn’t end on bad terms. But the reality is that, for …
Ripple Effect
Oh how I dread today’s topic of 30 days of d/s. Not because writing about it is hard, but because I hate when it happens.The drop…. What goes up must come down. Which means sub …
Handling Emotions
Negative emotions are natural and normal. But once you’re in a D/s relationship, there’s an expectation of how you’ll behave with your partner. Both of you, regardless of how you identify, should be polite and …
Light Up
Look at how a single candle can both defy and define the darkness. Anne Frank Just as before, I have feelings when using a qoute by Anne Frank on my sex blog. But, not all …
The Marshmallow Incident
As I mentioned it the post before, during our trial week for Meal Control there was an incident with a marshmallow. I’m not big on sweets. I prefer crisps, for example. But there are a …
Being stubborn can be a good thing…
Being stubborn can be a bad thing. It just depends on how you use it. Willie Aames I am a little stubborn. Really just a tiny little bit. I mean, it depends on who you …