I find myself in a weird situation
I thought long and hard about writing this post. I’m not writing this to get sympathy, call anyone out, or anything really. As so often I am writing to sort my thoughts. And maybe along …
Being Daddy’s Girl
“What does your nick mean?” I’m pretty sure that was one of my first questions I asked, after he approached me on Second Life. I don’t rememer what his exact name was, but it had …
Hunters and Gatherers
I like taking initiative. It’s not necessarily who I have always been, but it’s who I am now. Often it is not about the initiative itself. I am simply extremely impatient. I’m sure Michael will …
A date is what you make of it
“You’re not a girl to date. You’re a girl to marry.” I was told that once by a guy. Neither of us had any interest in dating each other. We were friends. To this day …
What Was I Thinking?
A year ago I was sitting at a conference and listening to the participants share their thoughts, opinions. One of the participants was an ex-boyfriend. It has been about 20 years since we dated and …
Love Letter
Oh, writing love letters used to be a specialty of mine. I even wrote love letters for my friends. The last one I wrote – in a very long time – was a couple of …
That is not a good trait
There are quite a few things of which I am proud. Mini-Mes, work accomplishments, my volunteer work, ideas, tasks well done, the kind of friend I am, and I could go on and on. When …
Twitter Lock
Privacy – that made my mind wonder off to Twitter right away. Everyone who follows me on Twitter knows that I have a locked account. Except for a few people, who have been following me …
Finding my way home
Today I live in Germany. But I was born in a different country. After the first few years of my life we moved and I grew up here. I don’t really see myself as German, …
Trust and Intimacy
For me, intimacy can be found in so many things. It can be a touch, a look, a word. Something totally mundane. Asking your partner whether they’d like some coffee too, while you’re making yourself …