Enjoy my Pain
There’s not much I can say about Sadism. All the run-ins I had with so-called sadist all ended pretty bad. And I never saw myself as a masochist. On the other hand I never tried …
Read a Book
I remember seeing the term “sapiosexuality” about 2 or 3 years ago for the first time. There was an article and I read it with fascination. I love it when things, which have been on …
Hurt Me and Say No
I always have trouble with labels. I never saw myself as much of a masochist and after my encounter with “the sadist” I very clearly said that I’m anything but. On the other hand, I …
Orgasm Control
Orgasm control is a no-brainer for me. It is part of d/s, for me. It has always been connected to d/s, every since the first dominant I submitted to. There were variations. Asking for permission …
Take Control
As some of you might have read, Michael and I are doing an experiment. We call it “The Experiment” and he has already written about it. I’m sure more posts from me will follow on …
Love is a Fairytale
For a while I thought about whether I should combine my post for QuoteQuest and KinkOfTheWeek. And after several days of deliberation, I came to the conclusion that my thoughts could not be combined. So …
Come, Walk with Me
The last two weeks of the year were different. With the holidays I would have days off and I also had vacation days. So I knew I’d have free days and nothing to do really. …
Calling me Slut will only get you that far
When we moved from DM to WhatsApp he didn’t know my real name and, for reasons unknown to me, in his phone he saved me as “Little Slut”. The name under which my contact is …
Rules and Protocols
It took me a while to decided what to write. I had ideas for the NTW as well as for KOTW, but I didn’t want to write two different posts. So I was figuring out …
Get Creative
I’m not a very creative person. No, you say? Well, but I am, I tell you. Let me explain what I mean. I am a practical person. I can organise an event for you and …