I’m Here
The planning has been going on for weeks. Pretty much right after Michael and I saw each other in France. I reached out to Molly and a plan formed. Last time we were together, I …
The Busy Submissive
That picture represents my brain and life in the past month, a bit more than that, pretty well.I have been busy. Like really, really busy. Conferences, seminars, family, more work, more volunteer work, more of …
Silence gives Consent
Today’s 30 Days of d/s has no question. But I will use the introduction to the topic to help my thoughts on it: Most of us think of consent as a “Yes” or a “No” …
The Sky’s the Limit
I was waiting for this topic on 30 Days of d/s: Do you know what your hard limits are? Are there a few things you’d like to try but you’re a little nervous? They’re such …
Don’t Give In
Stubbornness is a bad character trait for a submissive. If I follow that logic, I can tell you that I’m a horrible submissive. I’m stubborn. I’ve always been. My parents keep telling me stories about …
Live, Love, Travel
You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. Mae West There are so many different ideas on what comes after life. Is there afterlife? Are we reborn? No one knows. …
The Marshmallow Incident
As I mentioned it the post before, during our trial week for Meal Control there was an incident with a marshmallow. I’m not big on sweets. I prefer crisps, for example. But there are a …
Hope Dies Last
I miss him. I miss being in his arms. I miss being spanked by him. I miss laughing at the nonsense he says, while he’s next to me. I miss having dinner with him. I …
Young, Old, Silly
Young subs, older doms I think that’s me. Now, I wouldn’t go so far as to say that I always looked for an older dom. Even when looking at my relationship outside of d/s, a …
Call Me By My Name
I did it again. I scrolled through Twitter and read tweets. Many bloggers I follow do that thing, where they automatically tweet old posts. Blasts from the past. I do that too. And sometimes I …