I Choose, Because I can
You can’t be a submissive and a feminist I love it when someone tells me what I can or can not do or be. My instant reaction is to prove them wrong. In some cases …
d/s and stability
A person, who identifies as submissive, went through some kind of trauma or is mentally unstable in some way. So, I took my time writing my post for the current NoTrueWay. That had to do …
Cum For Me
It is a submissive’s responsibility to make sure the dominant (always) reaches orgasm. I love it when he orgasms. The look on his face, the sounds he makes. I love the moments before. When I …
Break – Erase – Rewrite
Sometimes Michael says something about breaking me down. It usually is in during a certain moment in our more kinky moments. But whenever he says it, it stays with me. I have heard men say …
The Act of Sex
Sex means PIV Everything else is foreplay, petting, making out, etc I know for a fact that sex doesn’t mean PIV. Now I do. That hasn’t always been this way. I grew up with the …
Possession of Collar
It has been a busy time for me. I didn’t get to write anything. Not for my blog, not for other memes and prompts and not for NTW.I did have a lot of thoughts on …
Just Checking
Using a check list at the beginning of a potential d/s relationship is the best way to see whether it will work There’s a romanticised idea that one day you’ll meet another person (or several …
When You See Me…
I have been so occupied with work and 30 Days of d/s that I almost forgot to write a post for my own prompt. But I remembered… A dominant person recognises a submissive person……not with …
Don’t Give In
Stubbornness is a bad character trait for a submissive. If I follow that logic, I can tell you that I’m a horrible submissive. I’m stubborn. I’ve always been. My parents keep telling me stories about …
If I am not for myself, who is for me?
Aftercare is mandatory for subs. Where do I start?It was a long journey for me to learn about the concept of aftercare and dropping. I believe those two often go hand in hand. When I …