What would you like for dinner?
“What would you like to do when you’re here?”“Would you like to visit places?”“Is there anything particular you’d like to to do kink-wise?”“What would you like me to cook you?” Last week I was driving …
Oh, so pretty
Hygiene and grooming are important – your Dom wants you clean and pretty Obviously, personal hygiene isn’t a bad idea. Brushing one’s teeth, taking a shower, washing hands (extra important, as we learnt in the …
Submission is not about what I want
Submission isn’t about what you want to do. Of course it is about what I want. And yet, sometimes it’s not. Submission in a normal, healthy d/s relationship is all about what I want and …
X for XYZ
We are responsible for: – keeping our home clean – cooking meals – running errands – remembering all of our dominants likes and dislikes – anticipating their needs – doing every task they give us …
M for Meditation
Spend some time every day meditating on your submission, even if you can only spend 15 minutes or so. The current NoTrueWay prompt tells us submissives to take some time out of our day to …
F for Friend
Make a plan how to correct your mistake. Often it just means avoiding the thing that lured you to begin with. It could mean you end a friendship or activity, if things need to be …
Gifts have ribbons, not strings
Vanna Bonta Submission is a gift Michael keeps saying this. He then follows up with “And so is dominance”. He’s not the first person to ever say this to me and when I chose that …
Show me your sub, I’ll show you who you are
A submissive is a reflection of their Dominant. This statement should not be true. In any shape or form. Let me explain. We can all agree that we shouldn’t judge a person by the action …
The Power of Adulting
Doms always have to be the “adult in the room” even during a break up. The flip side of power is responsibility. I have things to say about the current NoTrueWay prompt. But then I …
I Choose, Because I can
You can’t be a submissive and a feminist I love it when someone tells me what I can or can not do or be. My instant reaction is to prove them wrong. In some cases …