Respect and Gratitude
“Thank you my little slut” That was his response to me, after I randomly shared some information with him. It was nothing he asked for or I was supposed to give him. I, as a …
I am determined
It finally happened. He said it would happen one day. But somehow I couldn’t imagine it. But the day came earlier than I thought it would. We had a fight. I’m not sure that is …
No self-respecting woman….
The other day I saw a retweet. Sadly I didn’t star it and of course was not able to find it again. So all I can do is to paraphrase it. The original tweet said …
A date is what you make of it
“You’re not a girl to date. You’re a girl to marry.” I was told that once by a guy. Neither of us had any interest in dating each other. We were friends. To this day …
It Depends
The other night, I was lying in bed and waiting for Sir to call. I enjoy our late night calls, as much as any other of our calls or ways of communication. But the late …
Being Owned by Him
Every morning, when I wake up, I have a certain routine. One of the things I do is sending him a “good morning” text. Another thing is stating his ownership over me. The words he …
What Was I Thinking?
A year ago I was sitting at a conference and listening to the participants share their thoughts, opinions. One of the participants was an ex-boyfriend. It has been about 20 years since we dated and …
Disappointed vs. Angry
I have written about being told that I disappointed my Dom before. And in the past few months I also had conversations on Twitter about it. It’s interesting to see how people understand words differently …
Bathroom Break
I wrote this post as a task during “mean week, so several weeks ago. Even before we met in person, Michael and I had talked about different things which excite us. Things we wanted to …
That is not a good trait
There are quite a few things of which I am proud. Mini-Mes, work accomplishments, my volunteer work, ideas, tasks well done, the kind of friend I am, and I could go on and on. When …