The Naked Truth
In some D/s relationships, there is an agreement that the submissive will always be sexually available to their dominant. While this can be a kinky, sexy aspect of a relationship, it always requires a great …
Silence gives Consent
Today’s 30 Days of d/s has no question. But I will use the introduction to the topic to help my thoughts on it: Most of us think of consent as a “Yes” or a “No” …
Conflict of Submission
Post 4 on 30 Days of d/s: How do you handle conflict now? How do you imagine handling it in D/s? What do you think you’ll need to do differently in a D/s relationship? As …
What’s (not) in a Sub
Does a submissive have certain behaviours? Do submissives do specific tasks? When you think of a submissive and submission, what thoughts come to mind? After posting my first post for 30 Days of d/s, I …
Don’t Give In
Stubbornness is a bad character trait for a submissive. If I follow that logic, I can tell you that I’m a horrible submissive. I’m stubborn. I’ve always been. My parents keep telling me stories about …
The Marshmallow Incident
As I mentioned it the post before, during our trial week for Meal Control there was an incident with a marshmallow. I’m not big on sweets. I prefer crisps, for example. But there are a …
Eat an Egg
It all started with me saying “no”. He was telling me what to do, and well, here we are. And in retrospect I can say, I should’ve seen it coming. Funny, how sometimes I can’t …
Young, Old, Silly
Young subs, older doms I think that’s me. Now, I wouldn’t go so far as to say that I always looked for an older dom. Even when looking at my relationship outside of d/s, a …
Safeword
I’m not sure I’m smarter than I look. But for sure I’m less rational or logical (sometimes) than I normally act. Most of the time I know what is right and what could work and …
On The Edge
I’m pretty sure I have mentioned before that I have a weekly schedule. I don’t even remember how it started. But I like it. Most of the time. I mean, it’s an excel spreadsheet, with …