F for Friend
Make a plan how to correct your mistake. Often it just means avoiding the thing that lured you to begin with. It could mean you end a friendship or activity, if things need to be …
Gifts have ribbons, not strings
Vanna Bonta Submission is a gift Michael keeps saying this. He then follows up with “And so is dominance”. He’s not the first person to ever say this to me and when I chose that …
Expections
Before Friday I want a essay on what my expectations of you are. I was told before that this would be a task in the near future. Shortly after I read those words on my …
I Choose, Because I can
You can’t be a submissive and a feminist I love it when someone tells me what I can or can not do or be. My instant reaction is to prove them wrong. In some cases …
Tell Me, What to Say
I was driving. It was a long drive and I was on the phone with Sir. We were talking about all kinds of things and if I recall correctly we started talking about what I …
Cum For Me
It is a submissive’s responsibility to make sure the dominant (always) reaches orgasm. I love it when he orgasms. The look on his face, the sounds he makes. I love the moments before. When I …
Break – Erase – Rewrite
Sometimes Michael says something about breaking me down. It usually is in during a certain moment in our more kinky moments. But whenever he says it, it stays with me. I have heard men say …
Mommy likes Bruises
If you’re a parent, today is a day to think about how you make your D/s work while raising kids. And if you’re not a parent yet, imagine how you might handle things if you …
Rituals and Tasks
I had been doing so well with the 30 Days of d/s. But then again, it was easy. I started when I was away on holiday with Michael. There was only a little bit of …
The Busy Submissive
That picture represents my brain and life in the past month, a bit more than that, pretty well.I have been busy. Like really, really busy. Conferences, seminars, family, more work, more volunteer work, more of …